#l'm a dreamy girl, I love to share my thoughts through writing whenever I felt something about from the inside of my heart & The thirst of knowing knee down me to write
Hello, guys hope so you all are very well and very great have a happy Tuesday! and have a happy teachers’ day! I’m posting my blog lately, on teachers day but it’s honed for me to write on the learning procedure
Teachers are not kings or queens but they only made their learners kings or queens
The person who teaches me a single word makes me his servant for a lifetime (Hazrat Ali)
I wanted to serve what I have with the blessing of Almighty Allah and the blessing of my teachers so I decided to serve through my writing skills
We are learners and learning age never ends what I believe! I love to discuss the continuous process of learning on teachers day
Degrees and age never stop you to learn and it’s a kind of blessing if we consider it’s a kind bonus as well!
Even I learned to learn lately I’m kind of a late person and very slow to end up the things for low stability I was habitual to create negative vibes for myself in the workplace I put things on the next day and the next day means another next day! I cause myself to handle hard to all the situations and even I lost my trust-building so very hard, I learned to be very committed otherwise frank refusals are not wrong I learned from my familiarities
So wanted to share with you that reading was a big painful thing for me I got tired so again very difficult for me to make myself habitual of reading for learning and learning Is a continuous process and I idolize this continuous learning process without any stopping stage
So that is the only reason I’m blessed with outstanding teachers I’m thankful of my all teachers as well incredibly I’m thankful to Almighty Allah who blessed me with blessed persons as a shelter in my life in many faces and he chooses me to learn from amazing personalities as well from worse situations and life experiences if you want to learn how to play guitar and you decided to attend 10 class of guitar start-up classes how you’ll manage it will you attend all 10 classes continuously without skipping or will you attend one class in one month and rest of 9 classes in other nine months you will never be able to play in a particular way
If you want to play guitar seriously definitely you’ll attend all 10 classes without missing so learning continuous process is very much important rather than omitting the process so it should be clear in our mind for leaning
We all have many ways to learn but we need to be clear in our purpose it is a very important thing for what we’re doing and why we’re pursuing the learning process for ourselves because if you never put yourself in a preplanned situation you’ll unable to receive the best result so planning is a very important thing in this procedure
Look at around the world We’re living in the digitalized world the world is under our thumbprint we have uncountable ways to move you can learn through online classes according to your interest build your interest and come out from the satisfaction zone! I knew this line made you shocked how we can leave our satisfaction zone
Here is another amazing thing to share with you and I would love to discuss with you I was very happy with my comfort zone but my comfort zone never satisfy me
Our satisfaction zone will never satisfy us until and unless we have to destroy our comfort zone for moving towards our dream no matter how we just try to force ourselves and put ourselves in pain we need to put ourselves under pressure putting ourselves in the hard situation for achieving our objective
Flowers never grow without the sunlight few hard situations are very much important and very necessary for growing ourselves to sparkle
Things getting very hard when we consider them hard but things got very easy when we making things in simple form things depends on us how’re categorizing them and they become in that shape it’s just like water when we putting in shapes for ice we take the ice in that shape simply it depends on us how we carry things for ourselves
A considerable thing is to make things in a particular form for a useful outcome and make yourself learn continuously let’s think about preparing yourself for continuous learning
Today we’ll discuss something new I come up with another topic and another little story related to me I’m a young youth activist and trying to do work for youth as much as I can! I felt lucky I’m blessed with the best teachers I have best friends in the form of books I’m very close with my friends today I take the step to work more on the capacity building of youth to enhance their growth personally as well professionally my baby steps might can helpful for you guys consider me as your well-wisher as a close friend
I wanted to intrect with you through my writing skills
I believe
To change others we need to work on ourselves to make positive changes on me as well for others I prefer for me to write hope so my little efforts can make myself being positive for others
I am kind of a person who understands behaviors very well many of the time people just through their unnecessary words on me try to discourage me and this formula worked to words me oppositely my perspective is a little bit different
I used to think if anybody wants us to be down on our knees or try to show they are more superior it means they want to know us about their weakness they want to realize we are superior to those I usually face few unnecessary words blaming attempts but this fake formula work on me in a very positive form I face them very smoothly and try to handle with kindness
So today I decided to write a little bit about kindness I noticed little walks of kindness makes people very happy we never know how people handle their situations in life and facing problems in their lives why we can not decide to be kind to everyone it’s not so tough as we think our little acts can make anyone happy did you notice the small act of kindness make people happy
Just do 5 things:
1-Tolerate and don’t respond to an angry moment trust is very easy for being kind
2-Talk with others according to their mood Few people change their behaviors because they want something for their goodness if we do not pay off they show their real face and the manageable way is to take aside from them and be with those who value yourself and meet with those who respect you and try to be kind
3-Don’t be angry when things make you angry try to sit on the back and let things happen things take time and will be fine so be kind and stress free
4-Just think if you’re facing a hard situation and your old friend try to come up you from that situation so try to motivate yourself and be kind to others make positivity through your kindness
5-It’s hard to meet with old friends but try to text them maybe you 10-to-15 seconds make others happy just show a positive attitude and recall your good memory may be your friend is facing a hard time turning turn to make them happy with the kindness
Today I face very uncertainly useless questions why you’re doing social work with nonprofit organizations and what is your designation CEO couldn’t announce your designation and even I also never seen any yelling for me think for just a second what kind of my response should be I’m not working for yelling 😂😂😂
I replied to a few of them yeah I’m working because of my passion as a youth activist trainer and host but then I handle with my way
I respond to few of them I’m working because of my happiness and happiness is the biggest thing in this world I’m working for my passion and I don’t need a big screen I don’t want any designation what I’m, I’m..
Well
we are here for doing good and definitely, it will back in the same way I’m ok with my real nameplate I’m nothing and I’m happy, my tot steps make me happy I’m not here workings to change the world as always I repeat in my writings with a big titled nameplates
Trust me guy never designations can prove you and we don’t need not working for any reward I’m working because only one reason I’m so passionate about my passion
I’m here to do good with tiny baby tot steps to valor get in I want to fly freely my designation Is on beyond my work is without any dilemma my life’s purpose is to fly freely with my courage with my strength I love to be kind with my kindness I’m leaner and I’ll in my whole life
I always believe thirst for knowledge and my creative thoughts knee down me to write so what to write?
OR
Not to write?
Because
Words have power words have hope words have reality words have deep thoughts no one can effortlessly understand them and yes it’s a hard actuality of writing so well I decided to write because of my nature I love nature, art, I love to talk on useful things I love to read and write as well so, these things comes from inside of my heart so today I decided to write about patience before asking what patience is? I wanted to tell you I’m an impatient and kind of impulsive person!
I want things perfect on time no matter how and this habit makes me very much stressed in actual I cause to stress to myself and things become very unfavorable for me
Wanted to share my thoughts with you guys might be your description is change according to your understanding about patience! I started very recently to accept we never rush on things, Things want time! Our close relations want our time to understand us each and everything want us time to be perfect nor every situation effortlessly change according to us it’s very tough to be tolerant but it’s important to learn for mental health as well otherwise stress is only a step back of danger for personal development it’s hardly important to learn about patience no one is perfect in this world we learn from our experiences we learn from each other and then things become very easy to handle hope so my little step can be helpful for my youngsters.
Not sharp thinker as to change the world not to change the country nor working to change my surroundings even not to closed one’s like siblings like buddies
I’m not working to change the world I’m created with a creating mind to create my world
I’m Working only one
And that’s me!
To change my inside working on to change my mindset then situations and working to be strong more as right now I’m
As young youth member I’m thousand times sure that I’m working on right point for the right vision
On this international day, we can promise to work on the right themes for right visions
Right themes of our society we can put one drop we’re not entired ripple but collectively we young people are entired maritime and the deep wide acean
Not for changing the world but for making the(convoy)chain
Need you all to put just few
The rare
And very few
For the peace
We can remove dirt and the tall narrow boundaries
For the peace
We can be active and be wise only for the freedom we have the right
For the right!
We can stand for a strong chain
For our vision
Against the hunger
Against the poverty
Against the forced marriage
Against the child abuse
Against women’s violence
Against domestic violence
Against the diseases
Against the rape
Against the force convergence
How to save the trees we can fight
For our clear and green right
For the peace we can fight
For right education we can fight
We have right for fight
With the slogan we’re not changing this world we are creater and we create our world
Where filaments, petals show the Nature of smoothness kindness softness
Swaying the floks and all other branches were dancing in joy it made me took deeper towards to Nature
Parts of mud show the annihilate
Eternal is only Allah I realized
Clouds were breaking up to reveal the blue transparent sky which shows me his cover of protection
Limb every limb shows the strong power, strong power of Almighty(Al-Mateen)
Have you ever noticed the life of a new flower and when petals turned older and fall then again I realized the concept of life and death
Few sanctuaries took me deeper into nature, Somewhere to listen to the wind, Birds, ponder the clouds everything has a deeper message of the kindness of love of humbleness of humility It makes me an explorer unexplained
Content related to my life, How I polished my self part-I
Hello!
Hopefully, everything is well with you all.
Welcome to this blog why you need to touch this blog if you want to how to be strong how to be a discussion maker and how we could be our best friend ever!
If you want to know how you can be our motivation; so this blog is for__________________________________you:
I’m from Pakistan I belong from a Muslim family and my family is combined we are taught to be humble be kind be loving and being acceptable
BUT
It’s a very natural thing our perspective never be same as for others, If we’re treated kindly and taught to be helpful and kind does not mean we accept same from others it’s just a point from my side do always best but never expect from anyone
In this blog firstly want to tell you about my background and family and culture, and few self-awareness points then I will share how I was than how I formed my capabilities how I change my self now what I am
I have put one exercise for you all don’t miss that exercise while reading
My background:
My entired background is very simple, I belong from simple people!
My father is not a landlord or I’m not from any high landlord family, I used landlord word because Sindhis are landlord people to be known in the world somewhere, But my definition about my people are very kind loving, and caring, and very welcoming
A little touch of my “RICHEST CULTURE” and beautiful culturein the world:
I belong to the richest culture in the world which has strong roots in the Indus valley civilization Sindh has natural resources, The first definition of the sindhi culture emanates from that over the 7000-years old Indus civilization that was Arayan period about 3,000 years BC (According to the history) Sindhi people are very simple and traditional welcoming Sindhis have their language, Folk, Tradition, Costumes, Sindhis lifestyle is different from neighborhood religions, The centuries and old history has given to Sindh the strong tradition customs, Sindhi celebrates its cultural day at the end of the year Sindhi people are divided among Pakistan India and living in all over countries, Sindhis have its unique music traditional music simple music is performed at studios and even gatherings but specially SUFI music performed at shrines, Sindh has one of the worlds oldest pieces of literature, In 9th and 10th-century QURAN was translated from the
Arabic language into the first eastern language and that was the Sindhi language, I love my culture
Musical instruments Shrine of Lal-Shahbaz Qalandar canvas Sindhi print Sindhi music
Ajrak is a name given to a unique form of blockprintedshawls
Sindhi craft
It’s a very old culture Sindhis craft is unique and beautiful, Ajrak is a sign of Sindhi culture Ajrak is uniquely printed like a shawl, Real ajrak process is laborious highly
About my family:
my big bro is working at government university on a good scale and my father is a retired university employee government job status is different as compare to private job its lifetime guarantee even government will support you after retirement well in my family we are 6 siblings included me
we are four sisters I’m third last and we have big two brothers, My mother is a housewife and simple writer she wrote articles from her young age on her life
Her only dream was to provide education to her children’s the struggle she faced in her life during to provide education among us! That time was the worse time for her because of hurdles and whenever she has faced any panic situation she tries to take out her pain through pen and paper in the form of writing she was tried to convert her panic situation into beautiful inspirational words for her for our future, My mother’s writings are in our language and that is “SINDHI”
My siblings are educated and their passion is teaching my brothers have their institute where they facilitate youth to well known about IT field in our area common institutes timing is evening time so at evening time they run their institute and sisters passion is teaching so they are teachers in school from starting I saw “ami” My mother she gives religious education to the neighbor children so entired environmental is of to teach and to learn for the thirst of knowledge Abu Ami both usually read out books of SINDHI culture and much more even on world level but in our Sindhi language or Urdu, not English
Little bit more about me:
I have two brothers and their wife’s I have also one nephew and two sweet nieces they are attached with me and with every family member their innocence attract me when I play with them I take me aside and put real me with them I spend time with them and enjoy their company too_______________________________About my childhood:
From my childhood age, I was very talkative and extroverted, I loved to write to read think what it could be! I used to read little storybooks and write about the things whom I loved stupidly or innocently wrote about art or make a schedule on little dairy what I would have to do on daily basis, Still, I have remembered I was used little dairy beautifully decorated with pasted stickers with lock and key
At that time those things were my whole world whenever I left my dairy or the key of the dairy lock for me that moment was to be crazy to find again
A girl
From educated background
BUT
Not the discussion maker!
I belonged to an educated environment but for myself, I couldn’t choose the four-year education which relays on my future that was not chosen by my own! That was Mathematics and Mathematics was not my priority ever but get admission in the department of mathematics for graduation just continued as my brother and father suggest me even I was not able to convince them I’m not complaining or never like the regrates in my life but that’s a reality I did wring with my self I admire and take a step for me to change my self
Just one step for self awareness
for my future and the peace of mind and heart to I started to found out to me from my inner heart that what am I? I’m happy today I started to face the situation unfortunately before I was not! I am surprised I was not doing it before! what I want in my life I started to walk out to the people who realize what I’m I realized I did wrong does not mean I sit back and lets things happen no I did struggle and try to do what I love to do (start blogging is one of the examples of that) want to tell you here on fact! When we couldn’t face any situation we just try to find stupidly a corner and try to hide face from situations it’s a fake formula it couldn’t work for long we are just thinking we are on the center of the world no it’s not like that no one is more important for anyone people are important for their self we are scared about people and hide ourself from situations we need to be fearless and confident
I started to set few points when ever my mind started to stuck:
We have to live we have to face and the main thing is to create a path from tortured situations transparently, I can not say now I did not do anything for myself I tried I create away, I’m able to create my little happiness by my self even I’m using blog account for my happiness for my passion if I never fell in love with blogging I not allowed my self to write any single word because I pass out from the worse time when I was not able to raise voice against the things which I don’t love to be with me why I started to choose to be a blogger
_______Because_______
I believe to get rid of ignorance I can write, What I want, I love to learn, I love to share my thoughts coming out from worse days in peaceful days it’s my success worse days was when no one was my true friend with no one I can share anything but now I have books and these are my best friends and I can use the pen to express my thoughts so with the period I learn to handle the situations and learn how important is to create happiness without the friend’s circle we are more important for ourself
Acceptance:
we need to appreciate ourselves rather than expecting anybody can appreciate us we need to first appreciate our little courage so self-love is important and acceptance is more important for self-love, To appreciating ourselves is the form of self-love we Must need to accept our skin color
Must need to accept our body shaping without any fear we need to accept our imperfections in the perfect way we are best in our way we have our style to wear Ie have our style to express our thoughts to talk to highlight the things at least we are not the photocopy we are real and it’s our uniqueness
What is important?
Important is to find our hidden talent our hidden capabilities our interest degrees never matter skills matter and need to polish our skills, Whatever it could be singing, writing, Blogging or reblogging, there are many copy cutters so I choose a reblogging word because the best way is to reblogging rather choose wrong way make it right reblogging Is best way don’t copy any one’s content and there is no need to change the entired meaning of any ones thought you’re doing a fake game with yourself try to value the reality, Might be you’re more uniquely created your hidden talent can be more unique it could be good talking to expressing things well, your skills can make your life
Focus on your intrust now I’m going to talk one little point might be it’s incertain for anyone, I am somehow scared should I write or not but If I am going to miss this point I think I will main point so the point is if your parents are pushing you to be a doctor in your future and you want to be an IT doctor so focus on your interest, I am not saying to be not a doctor, No but I just want to stop you to being a bad doctor you can be best in your field which relays with your passion your future can be satisfied and more successful for you with the hard work for your choosable field
Just do hard work but the thing is to not wait for the right time will come with great surprise perfection will never sweep into your life it is the production of hard work might be I’m not a good blogger but I am trying to express my thoughts in my way, Might be my content can change any ones wrong perspective into right and definitely it will be my success
We are very close to ourself we need to be our best friend:
We are best buddy for our self we can enjoy our own company so we don’t need huge friends or a group of chill buddies
We can be best for ourselves without a good look we can do good for others as well
Our
Imperfections can make us unique no one is perfect no one believe me no one has created with perfections! We try to make ourselves best one we just need to polish our skills (Here is the exercise for you look at your right hand you have lines on right side of the hand now keep it close to your face you can see lines on your front side of the hand now again keep it very close to your eyes now close your eyes with your hands finally you can not be visible to see the lines of your hand this is how you’re close to your self & that’s why you are not able to focus on your capabilities, Try to spend time with your self and found your real skills
Set your paradigm and smart goal, not imaginary highlight milestones hurdles make a plan about how to overcome and set achievable time for your set paradigm
How I was and now what I am:
I was not a decision-maker not much confident, over-thinker and never appreciate my self I started to work to know about myself I set few points for me to overcome from overthinking start to do self-appreciation I love to do art so I do art to make myself happy, as per my thought happiness is the creation which you can create for your self, not anyone else can make happiness for you, Now I am confident I am wise I live with my style I believe changes come when you worked to change yourself
Peace the real peace of heart, Of mind, finding everywhere, try to find a smooth corner for self streaming and crazy to spend the few moments with the person who am I, where can find the sound of peace, wanted to feel the fragrance of heaven in this world in the form of peace where we can spend time with our real shadow, without buried fear wanted to listen to the instrumental for real peace, where is the way?
Where is the transparent path?
How can reach any appropriate point?
Even mind stocked and it’s the reason to be panic and the reason on tiredness
Where are the brightness of peace?
Any sound of a peaceful world? Ultimately is it the beautifully imaginary world where we can live in peace or just imagining to wondering to live in peace the consenses!
we can live in reality with peace of mind just need is to find a little point come out from the panic situation your strength will be your power, with passion try to find a little drop for entired ocean of peace, from one drop to occasion!
Do focus on tinny drop try to find this inside your heart you will find peace
Can you imagine a little drop can be the cure for the entire tortures of a heavy heart!
A little drop can reach you to the inside depth of the ocean in your heart and through that, you can find your real shadow even, it’s very natural peace come up from inside we just need to know ourselves we need to meet with ourselves to find a little drop inside the heart
When you knew about foe wore cover of adversary some behaved like the sympathetic person that was the right time to work with patience and to keep mouth to shut not because you cowardice its bcz its less authentical people world so to keep mouth to shut cure is to react with a smile
smiled not meet with eyes deeply heart has accepted the hate behind smiles, silently I was laughed on hoaxers I took real me aside accepting the bitter truth while …
It’s a world I have to survive time to keep mouth to shut lips like pink peals need to smile it’s a world I have to survive there was a time when real dudes were with me when I wouldn’t have big things when we’re fighting and after few mints smile together, I still remember my childhood how was making huts with mud after play out I obliterated, I remember when I cried my friends start to cry with me, How innocent those little ones were, I remember when I wouldn’t find a little key of small daily I get to start to crazy and worried to find! How innocent those memories were, perhaps to cherish those moments now.
Now trivialities are different polishing myself with positivity wondering to hear colorful stories more when I know the real truth of beautifully covered people it’s a lesson even we never try to expect many things from anyone just do good but never try to expect any good return from anyone, we only can make anyone good for ourself according to our mindset but it’s only according to us not for others so coming back on point it’s a lesson of life do good see the realities of surrounding accept and move not anyone is as much good as we assume its human nature people show their colors and it does not mean the entire world is like hoaxers not at all but coincidently somewhere we have to face pathetic side too the reason is that life wants us not to be extra humble with anyone just do good and forgot, at somewhere stage life make us and show the other side of people so keep learn and keep growing with positivity.
Every ending have a new process of a new journey I never cry on any end I always try to learn from my bit of experiences
I learned how behaviors get change!
I learned how to deal with different kinds of behaviors, I learned how trivialities get change, I learned to accept and try to compromise, I learned how friends start to move on and change, I Learned to behave smoothly with those who hide their evil hearts in the cover frame and show innocence on the face they remove their mask by their behave with time, I learned these things from my bit of experiences Before I never could have fathomed!
It’s a life we have to live, we have to compromise, we have to be happy, we just need to create happiness for ourselves for our trivialities and most importantly we have to live 😊
As per my understanding, I thought everything has a process and yes every process has its end but that does not mean every end is the reason for being panic not at all!
Every ending have a new process of another beginning
Every ending have something for a new start, Every last sunshine ray is the process of a new morning after deep darkness so every end opens the new door of another beginning as per my faith it’s the round process, and in the end, we’ll meet with our last day of life for the final beginning forever
TAHIRA-JOYO 